Hi Deborah,
I read your article online about normal forgetfulness and wanted to ask where you would turn if you were 44 and worried about this.  I do live with quite a bit of stress (divorce, own business, a somewhat mentally abusive boyfriend, etc), and have always been a multi-tasker who doesn't like to focus on details.  Since high school, I've been awful with names and memories of long term events.

So it didn't concern me when my boyfriend became concerned I didn't remember seeing a movie (I slept through it), or that we discussed something.  We had a rocky relationship and I thought he was excusing his behavior.  Recently, though, I had an intern work 3 months for me, and when a month later I tried recalling his name, I could not for the life of me remember until I looked it up.  If you think I should worry?  I've mentioned this to my primary and they excuse it to juggling.

On the bright side, I've noticed I am able to remember more things now that I've left the boyfriend, but I want to double check... Thank you!!  -- Signed, Worried

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